Bondage Basics

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There are many different types and degrees of bondage, which many people are actually not aware of. While bondage can be a perfectly normal and enjoyable experience between two consenting adults, it is something that has long been considered taboo so you won't likely hear people talk about it openly.
 
restraintsThis has led to a great amount of unawareness about what bondage actually is and how it works. Bondage entails different things and can vary from soft to hard core. Some people just like their hands lightly bound where another may find sexual arousal in being fully tied up and whipped by their partner.
 
Bondage is typically used for sexual arousal but not always and it can be used alone or as part of BDSM. Usually in bondage there is a dominant and a submissive partner. In some couples, these roles are always the same but other couples prefer to switch out and take turns being submissive and dominant.
 
Nipple ClampsHere are some things you need to know about bondage:

· If trying it for the first time, do some research so you know what you are doing

· Always try it only with a willing partner and when you both fully trust one another

· Always have a “safe word” that the restrained person can use when they want to stop

· Use toys and equipment that are safety approved for sex play

· Always have a backup plan or escape scenario if something goes wrong during your play

· Avoid choking or suffocation that can lead to an emergency situation instead of sexual play

· Talk openly about how you want to participate with bondage or when you want to try something new

 
When you follow these basic tips of bondage, you can have a fun and safe time. Once you have more experience with bondage, you may decide you want to try newer things or more advanced stages of bondage and sex play.
 
whipsEverything that takes place during the session should be talked about before hand and pre-consented to. This is because the submissive party will often be in a position where they are unable to say no or stop certain activities from taking place. The dominant party needs to be certain they do only what has been pre-agreed upon for that session.
 

Bondage is often used in sex play in combination with fantasies. It is a great opportunity for trusting couples to act out fantasies that they may never be able to do in reality. It can also be a great way to spruce up a long relationship and keep it from going stale.